HTSS115 - Why you keep picking bad companies to sell for - Scott Sylvan Bell

<p>If you keep working for the same type of people with the same problems you are the root cause. This may be tough to hear but it is easy for you to find yourself in a pattern.</p> <p>We all have Internal blind spots that hold us back. These blind spots may not be seen until someone shows you what actions you keep taking. Sometimes these conversations hurt feelings because they are so personal. We pick the wrong job and don’t think through what we are looking for. The weaknesses we have may get us to now take a position we should because we don’t think we are worthy.</p> <p>The type of people we look to associate with can be part of this problem that you and I face. </p> <p>We take the words of people who don’t matter and look to them as valid critics. We don’t discuss our shortcomings with people we trust. There is a catch 22 where we take the advice from people we don't really care for but we don't talk to people we trust. </p> <p>This causes another problem and it is we don’t ask for help when we need it. Help is not requested out of fear of looking dumb, silly or, even not knowing what to say. </p> <p>When you examine what is going on we work for the wrong people. Some weak or manipulative people will block you out of fear. There are people who will hold you back so they stay on top or look good. Most weak people do not allow others to grow into a role in fact they hold them back.</p> <p>There are also problems with abusive relationships. We put up with abusive relationships and take the problems handed out. If you have been in an abusive relationship you also may be predisposed to be taken advantage of. You will find that because of previous interactions you fall into these conversations until it is pointed out. </p> <p>The internal self-talk problems </p> <p>When you add in the conversations you have internally, your problems are compounded. </p> <ul><li>I can't do this</li> <li>I am not good enough </li> <li>Nobody will believe I can do this </li> <li>I will fail</li> <li>Nobody