EP382: The Enneagram Hotline - Cracking the tough shell and leveraging the softer side of strength with Jennifer Staats (SO Enneagram 8)

In this episode, I am speaking with Jennifer Staats, a fellow Enneagram 8, about the power of vulnerability in our homes and in the world. We discuss the challenges faced by strong, independent women who are wearing many hats in their lives. <br /><br />Jennifer clarifies the misconception that vulnerability is synonymous with transparency. She explains that vulnerability is a lifelong lesson and emphasizes the importance of practicing it, particularly during moments of weakness, betrayal, or violation.<br /><br />Jennifer also acknowledges the challenges that Enneagram 8 personalities face in embracing vulnerability, as they tend to second-guess others' motives and prefer isolation to avoid being betrayed or put in vulnerable situations. However, she highlights that true strength lies in vulnerability, compassion, and empathy.<br /><br />The episode goes beyond personal relationships and emphasizes the significance of vulnerability in making connections in the wider world. We stress that developing the ability to be vulnerable can only be achieved through relationships with others, even though it may be intimidating for Enneagram 8 personalities who fear betrayal and violation.<br /><br /><b>Connect with Tracy:</b><br />Tracy’s Website<a href="http://tracyomalley.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> http://tracyomalley.com/</a> <br />Tracy on Instagram<a href="https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/</a> <br />Tracy on Facebook<a href="https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley</a> <br />Tracy on Twitter<a href="https://twitter.com/TracyOMall" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://twitter.com/TracyOMall</a> <br />Tracy on LinkedIn<a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/</a><br /><br /><b>Resources:</b><br />Attend Tracy’s Enneag