Brotherhood of Fatherhood 169: The gentle art of leadership with Matt Shoup

<p><strong>Matt Shoup is a Jesus follower, husband, father, an award-winning serial entrepreneur, author, keynote speaker, Spain aficionado, aspiring paella chef, Brazilian Jiu Jitsu black belt, and Spanish coffee addict.</strong></p><p><strong>Matt’s entrepreneurial journey began at the age of 10, when he started a lawn mowing business to earn $200 for a boombox. It was then that Matt discovered his passion and love of business.</strong></p><p><strong>Ten years later, while studying at Colorado State University, Matt was recruited by a college painting company, where he learned even more about sales, marketing, and business operations. Matt made lots of money in college and then spent three times what he made.</strong></p><p><strong>00:00 We need to be physically strong</strong></p><p><strong>2:49 The equation for a good marriage.</strong></p><p><strong>8:40 The takeaway on the date.</strong></p><p><strong>14:34 What works and what doesn’t work</strong></p><p><strong>18:30 Understanding your spouse’s language.</strong></p><p><strong>22:29 Love languages, personality styles and understanding each other.</strong></p><p><strong>27:13 Emily’s standard of behavior.</strong></p><p><strong>31:13 Growing vulnerability, understanding and understanding. </strong></p><p><strong>35:09 Getting below the bravado of masculinity</strong></p><p><strong>40:37 The importance of habit stacking</strong></p><p><strong>43:30 The gift of violence</strong></p><p><strong>58:50 Three responses to Haley&#39;s Facebook post.</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>https://www.facebook.com/matt.shoup</strong></p><p><strong>https://www.linkedin.com/in/mattshoup/</strong></p><p><strong>https://www.instagram.com/matthewshoup/</strong></p><p><strong>https://www.youtube.com/c/mattshoup</strong></p><p><strong>https://www.tiktok.com/@mattshoup</strong></p><p><strong>https://twitter.com/MattShoup</strong></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><strong>https://www.mattshoup.com</strong></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><span>Be sure to check out this episode of the BOF Po