77: Is there a way you can make sure someone is the right for you on a first date?

<p>Last week I had a radio interview where I was asked a question that came from a reddit feed where a woman said how she tested men on dates to make sure they were suitable. She would meet them at a place where you BBQ&#39;d your dinner and also shucked oysters. She felt that this was a great test to see how they dealt with doing something outside of the square. Also that shucking oysters is challenging and felt that it is a good test of the person&#39;s character to see how they respond.</p> <p><br></p> <p>In the radio interview, I was asked if this was a good test or not (find out my answer in this podcast). </p> <p><br></p> <p>This got me thinking about how do you make sure the person you date is right for you? </p> <p>Should you look for red, green, or beige flags on your date? Or is there a specific test that will guarantee you don&#39;t end up with another person who wastes your valuable time?</p> <p>Let&#39;s face it you don&#39;t want another narcissistic, user or unavailable single.</p> <p><br></p> <p>In this week&#39;s podcast, I let you know what my answer was to the radio interview as well as answer these questions for you.</p>