31: Are you getting in the way of your own happiness?

<p>Are getting in the way of your own happiness when it comes to life, dating and relationships? When you read my question you might dismiss it, thinking why would anyone do THAT!?</p> <p>But I want you to think about it for a moment. Do you avoid doing things because they are too hard, because you may fail or get caught up thinking what's the point as things haven't worked out before?</p> <p>So as much as you might want something or something to happen you don't do anything about it!</p> <p>This can happen in all areas of your life and not just in relationships.</p> <p>But let's look at dating - maybe you don't date because it is too hard, or you have been rejected too many times so what is the point.&nbsp;</p> <p>Or you might have had the person you loved the most in the whole world leave you or betray you and you are scared that it will happen again.</p> <p>So as much as you want to meet someone the thought of being rejected again scares you. You might stop dating altogether, date unavailable singles or push people away.</p> <p>When these types of things have happened to you then you start to protect yourself from it happening again.</p> <p>But instead of protecting yourself are you self-sabotaging your own happiness? Sabotage means deliberately damaging, destroying or obstructing your own happiness! When you see it written that way it would seem a crazy thing to do but it happens more often than you think.</p> <p>In this weeks' podcast, I talk about why you may be getting stuck in the pattern of self-sabotage as well as how to break it so you can have the happiness you deserve.</p>