030: Sex & Marriage: Debunking The African Perspective -W/ Lola Bade-Aluko

<div>Today, we continue our conversation on the outlook on Sex & Marriage in the African Community. The goal is to challenge some of the myths and ideologies that limit couples from experiencing the full sexual pleasures of marriage.</div> <div> </div> <div>This episode has explicit content and listener's discretion is advised. This episode is for adults only - 18 years of age and older.</div> <div> </div> <div>Our guest for today, Lola Bade-Aluko who is also known as “Lawler”, is a Nigerian Clinical Psychologist and Sexologist currently based in South Africa. Lawler is a wearer of many hats and has taken on a number of great opportunities in her lifetime.</div> <div> </div> <div>She is a Talk Practitioner, a host at various radio talk programs in Nigeria, England, and Swaziland and also runs a Psychological Unit called Shoulders and a reach-out unit called "Real Issues with Lawler" where she volunteers, hosts talk shows and does counseling. She does all this also while working as the Executive Director of a Technology Firm.</div> <div> </div> <div>On a more personal level, she is a proud mother to two young adults and a wifey. Lawler is very passionate about mindset transformation and believes in the use of media as well as various other forms of outreach techniques in Behavioral Modification.</div> <div> </div> <div>Now, let's dive into Episode 30!</div> <p><strong>[00:01 – 10:56] Sex Through The Years</strong></p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">The progress that has been made over the years and generations when it comes to being open about our sex lives.</span></li> </ul> <p><strong>[10:56 – 18:46] Sex and Religious Ideologies</strong></p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Lawler shares her thoughts on how religion affects our sex lives</span></li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Being open-minded with our sexual experiences</span></li> </ul> <p><strong>[18:46 – 33: