When the Mic Went Silent: Turning Obstacles into Opportunities

<p>Have you ever prepared impeccably for a big moment, and then something out of your control goes horribly wrong?</p><p>Just a few weeks ago, I had the honor of being a Mega Session speaker at the 2023 CREW Network (women in construction) Convention in Atlanta, Georgia. The room of 500 was packed, super engaged audience.  Amazing!</p><p>But what happened next was nothing short of terrifying AND magical. The audio, crucial for the interactive finale of my talk, failed. The A/V team came up, but could not fix it. <br/><br/>Should I start singing Alicia Keys, ‘This Girl is On Fire’. Bad idea, considering my vocal ability. I decided to do the finale, an interactive visualization activity, without music. Not ideal, but the show must go on. <br/><br/></p><p>Then, an attendee in the session came to the stage and handed me her phone, and said, ‘HOLD THIS TO YOUR MIC!’. She had pulled up ‘This Girl is On Fire’ on Spotify.<br/><br/></p><p>Everyone clapped and stood up as I led them through the visualization finale with a phone held to my lavalier!<br/><br/></p><p>Honestly, this speaking event could not have turned out better. It was impactful, entertaining, and exemplified the topic that I covered ‘How to Defuse Emotionally Charged Situations and Remain Highly Influential’.<br/><br/></p><p>I am forever grateful for the opportunity to partner with the CREW Network for their national conference, and of course to the quick thinking woman in the front row who handed me her phone!<br/><br/></p><p>Whether a speaking event, a meeting, interview, or any other unexpected turn of events, there will be obstacles. If you can be open to the unexpected and stay emotionally agile, the outcome may be even better than you expected. <br/><br/></p><p>Here are a few strategies that may help you do just that:<br/><br/></p><p><b>Embrace the Unexpected</b></p><p>We&apos;ve all been there, right? The moment when something goes awry, and we&apos;re tempted to throw in the towel. But let&apos;s take a step back and think about the courage and resi