Tori Kruse. How to Change Your Focus to Win. Episode 414 with The Real Brad Lea (TRBL)

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you type in Tori Kruse in Google, you will find a sparkling crown and sash from her days as Miss Missouri USA 2018. As former Miss Missouri USA, Tori learned to perform the external life everyone expected. What she did not expect was the internal journey of discovering the unexpected. She set out to win a title, but her greatest achievement was uncovering, unlocking, and unleashing her authentic self. </span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In this episode, Brad and Tori discuss the importance of focusing on the RIGHT things to win and how you are the only person who can change for yourself. </span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">00:00 Intro</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">02:00 Brad’s Driven speech</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">03:20 How pageantry is a journey</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">04:31 Bomb 1: “I was losing because I wasn’t focused on the daily affirmations and gratitude.” - Tori Kruse</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">06:52 Bomb 2: “How can you love the hell out of someone else but hate yourself?” - Tori Kruse</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">10:23 Bomb 3: “I am not in the game to change anyone, people need to change for themselves.”- Tori Kruse</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">15:25 “I don’t hold onto resentment, because that would only hurt me.” - Tori Kruse</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">22:15 The unexpected coaching program</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">26:24 Sometimes helping a dude is a helping a woman-- Brad Lea</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">28:55 “Breakthroughs are on the other side of change.” - Tori Kruse</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">30:32 The power of NO</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">32:41 What happens in pageant life</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">39:00 College</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">42:36 Top three things to get out rela