THIS Is How You Deal with Difficult People | Tom Bilyeu Q&A

Learn how to build IRONCLAD discipline in this free workshop: https://bit.ly/3CqjYhgOn Today's Episode: When was the last time you got into an argument? Have you been avoiding certain groups of people because the environment is so toxic? Have you caught yourself wondering after a conversation if you, in fact, were the one being difficult with someone else? While each scenario is different, the solution is nearly the same, and it requires you to show up as your best self even when it’s difficult. We can’t control other people’s emotions and responses but we are in control of our own. Leading with kindness when you encounter difficult people is the best way to ensure that you have meaningful relationships and conversations with others. You’re not always going to agree, but you can disagree and seek to understand where you may be wrong to make sure you have the healthiest relationships with family, friends, and teammates. SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction1:34 | Toxicity In the Family8:12 | Aggressive People In Denial13:15 | Can’t Accept They’re Wrong17:41 | Steel Man the Argument23:16 | Dealing With Obnoxious People26:32 | Know If You’re Being Difficult29:00 | Keep Arguments Grounded33:49 | Give People Space To Process36:07 | Ending Difficulty for Harmony QUOTES: “It is okay for people to have a negative opinion about you.” [3:16] “Anything that stops you from seeing yourself clearly, is something that holds you back. It stops you from having that progress, it stops you from building a life of joy, and at the end of the day, living a joyful life is really the sum total” [4:59] “The very thing that makes people attack you is an outward focused gaze, and those that focus outward fail to see the opportunities in themselves.” [6:30] “If the other person is getting agitated, instead of pretending that they're not, in the most gentle, loving, reconciliatory way, we're trying to figure out what happened.” [12:06] “This comes back to wanting to be able to understand wanting to be able to articulate their side not trying to fo