There's No Way You'll Be A Leader Unless People Trust You

<p>"There's always the opportunity for you to be able to speak truth and speak better when you listen better. I think that there are because people just group listening as one [or] there's listening to learn or what we call information on this thing where you kind of just gathering all that information. There is critical listening, where you're listening to evaluate and analyse stuff to help you towards your actual thinking [and] empathetic thinking or therapeutical empathetic listening that people need to have. You could add to that active listening and all different forms. Those three for me are really important that first one I listened to learn. We can just hear where people are coming from"</p> <p>"I love to be able to let people loose. Even if, you've got a bit of a solution, let people loose and let them just work, just totally go and brainstorm and start thinking of different ways of approaching this. How do organisations have these really tough conversations? ... Let's be brave about that leadership ... I would always ask questions. I would always challenge people ... I always tried to give people the benefit of the doubt until they prove me wrong ... For me, it was about how do we use humour ... you're up against this wall of constant ignorance and wilful ignorance, I would give people the benefit of the doubt."</p> <p>Provocateur, leadership coach, board advisor, David McQueen and I discuss leadership, the good, the bad and the ugly. True leadership is not about you. It's about your role in helping other get to the same destination. They create more leaders. Bad leaders make it all about them. Great leaders are trusted, have clarity of vision, are vulnerable, invite criticism, are resilient.</p> <p>We discuss inclusivity, diversity and culture. Potent leaders create a space for other to feel safe to express themselves, to feel that they belong and have a place that is valued.</p> <p>We explore Dave's experience of being black and British growing up in North London in the 1970s. He says his love of book