The 10 most common relationship problems and how to address them

<p>Today we discuss the top relationship problems that effect couples the most. We look at ways in which these problems manifest and at possible ways of addressing them. We discuss 10 items plus one bonus one. <br/><br/>1. Arguments: disagreements in any relationship are entirely to be expected. However, if the relationship is dominated by endless and repetitive arguments, then you may want to stop and consider what the typical contentious issues are in your relationship and to also think about the underlying causes. We are currently developing a mini course on effective arguing. Watch this space. -<br/>2. Lack of connection: When you never find time to sit down and find out about your partner&apos;s experiences, then there is little engagement with your partner, the relationship will be suffering in the long run. Connections needs to be paid attention to and actively nurtured. -<br/>3. Stress: Too much stress is the enemy of connection. When we are stressed we are too wrapped up in our own &apos;survival&apos; and therefore cannot connect well with others. If chronically stressed then there won&apos;t be much room to empathise and understand your partner. -<br/>4. Boredom: Many couples struggle to move on from the exciting hay days of the honeymoon period in their relationship. You start to see your partner in a more realistic light and might find it difficult to adjust to the more mundane daily routine of your life together. -<br/>5. Children: As lovely as they are, children are frequently a stressor in relationships because of different views that partner&apos;s have of parenting and the competing demands of childcare, work and time for your partner. Couples with children often play out old relationship and family patterns from their family of origin which need to be brought into awareness. -<br/>6. The wider family: You may struggle to get on with your partner&apos;s parents or siblings, finding them too interfering for example and/or your partner may not be keen on yours. The relationship with partners&apos;