Stop looking for ready-made husband – Charly Boy to women

<p>Nigerian activist Charles Oputa, aka Charly Boy, has advised ladies to stop seeking ready-made husbands and start being supportive.</p>, <p>In an Instagram post, Charly Boy said that ladies must be able to offer more than sex and start supporting their men in other areas of life.</p>, <p>According to him, most relationships are cut short nowadays because many ladies only have sex to offer in their relationships and nothing more.</p>, <p>He said: “Many girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused to give them sex. Some girls have even turned into sex toys just to keep a man. Let me be very open here, sex might not be the reason these guys walk away.</p>, <p>“Remove sex from a relationship and you’ll see that most girls do not have anything else to offer their man.</p>, <p>” Aside from sex, what do you have to offer to a man. Can you support him spiritually? Can you support him physically and financially? How about mentally?”</p>, <p>He urged ladies to stop spending unnecessarily on material things and plan for the future with their partners.</p>, <p>“All you girls do is demand money for bags, shoes, phones, clothes, and outings. Making him spend unnecessarily. What are you even bringing to the table?</p>, <p>“Have you ever sat him down and helped him plan for his future. Try to be a woman that a man will always regret losing for the rest of his life.</p>, <p>“Be that woman that your man can’t afford to lose to another man. Build your man to your taste and stop looking for a ready-made husband when you’re not a ready-made wife,” he added.</p>