S4, Ep 397: Using Law of Attraction After Getting Fired

<p><strong>A few months ago, your nanny job ended. What happened?</strong></p> <p>I was nannying and had been kind of struggling with it for about a year at that point. It just got to a point where I couldn’t make it work. I did a lot of coaching with you about navigating and manifesting my way through those things, but none of it worked.</p> <p><br></p> <p><strong>Why wasn’t it like “Let me get a new job?”</strong></p> <p>I had been force-telling myself that I could manifest it to be better. I could force a bad situation to be good instead of just exiting the situation into a better situation. And because a similar situation had happened in my last nanny job, I thought that I was the common denominator, so I should fix myself within the job. But really, I needed just to exit the field of nannying. </p> <p><br></p> <p><strong>There were parallels between your last relationship and your relationship with that boss, tell us about that.</strong></p> <p>My boss lacked compassion for me and my experiences within that job. Similar things happened with my ex-boyfriend all the time. He had no compassion or flexibility in any part of the world or his life, especially with me. So I experienced similar reactions from both my boss and my ex - when I asked for things I needed I would be met with resistance and anger. </p> <p><br></p> <p><strong>If I had coached you and told you, “Why don’t you just quit this job?” What would you have said?</strong></p> <p>I probably would have said, “No, I can fix this. This is a pattern and I’m determined to break this pattern where I am.” I felt the only way a pattern could be fixed was within the situation itself. But I had grown so much that I had become a square peg, so I was no longer going to fit into a round hole, no matter how much self-work I did.</p> <p><br></p> <p>I had become another person, and really she needed me to leave for her to break into the person she was becoming too. My leaving left her the space to step into that easier life she was creating too. </p> <p><br></p> <p>