Resolving Conflict Begins with Self-Awareness According to Ryan Dunlap, Ep #411

<p>Self-confidence and self-control in conflict are difficult things to master. And you can’t resolve conflict with others until you learn to resolve conflict <em>within yourself</em>. This takes an incredible amount of self-awareness. In this episode of Negotiations Ninja, Ryan shares how you can learn to resolve conflict the right way by starting with knowing yourself. </p> <h2>Outline of This Episode</h2> <ul> <li>[2:01] Learn more about Ryan Dunlap</li> <li>[4:01] Resolving conflict within yourself</li> <li>[7:40] Why scripts don’t get the desired outcome</li> <li>[10:33] How to become more self-aware</li> <li>[14:32] The best alternative to an ideal outcome</li> <li>[19:17] How to learn better self-control</li> </ul> <h2>Resources & People Mentioned</h2> <ul> <li><a href= "https://www.amazon.com/Insight-Self-Aware-Ourselves-Clearly-Succeed/dp/0451496817" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Insight</a> by Tasha Eurich</li> </ul> <h2>Connect with Ryan Dunlap</h2> <ul> <li><a href="https://www.conflictish.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">Conflictish™</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.conflictish.com/training" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Ryan’s training and workshops</a></li> <li>Friend on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/conflictish/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Instagram</a></li> <li>Connect on <a href= "https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryanmdunlap/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">LinkedIn</a></li> </ul> <h2>Connect With Mark</h2> <ul> <li>Follow Negotiations Ninja on Twitter: <a href= "https://twitter.com/NegotiationPod" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">@NegotiationPod</a></li> <li>Connect with Mark <a href= "https://www.linkedin.com/in/markraffan/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">on LinkedIn</a></li> <li>Follow Negotiations Ninja <a href= "https://www.linkedin.com/company/negotiations-ninja-podcast" target="_blank" rel="noopener">on LinkedIn</a></li> <li>Connect on Instagram: <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/negotiationpod/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">@NegotiationPod</a></li> </ul> <p><a href="htt