Relationship G.R.I.T. - an Interview with Jon and Kathryn Gordon #256

<blockquote> <p style="text-align: center;"><strong>“</strong><strong>We're at our best when we focus on we, not me.”</strong> <strong>–</strong> <strong>Jon Gordon</strong></p> </blockquote> <p> </p> <p>Great relationships don’t just happen by accident - they take commitment, hard work and G.R.I.T. In this episode, Brian interviews Jon and Kathryn Gordon about their new book, “Relationship GRIT,” and what it takes to build a strong, long-lasting relationship. The Gordons reveal what brought them together, what kept them together through difficult times and what continues to sustain their love for one another.  </p> <p> </p> <p><strong>YOU WILL LEARN:</strong></p> <ul> <li>How to embrace the principles of G.R.I.T.</li> <li>Why the four C’s are key to a healthy relationship.</li> <li>Why flaws and mistakes can strengthen a relationship.</li> </ul> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p><strong>MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:</strong></p> <p><a href="http://www.jongordon.com">www.jongordon.com</a></p> <p>“<a href= "https://www.amazon.com/Relationship-Grit-Lessons-Together-Thrive/dp/111943033X/ref=as_li_ss_tl?keywords=relationship+grit&qid=1584972225&sr=8-1&linkCode=sl1&tag=hlg2-20&linkId=b157ca2e7f84734fff2694e6765108d3&language=en_US">Relationship GRIT</a>,” by Jon and Kathryn Gordon</p> <p><a href="https://www.relationshipgritbook.com/">Free action plan</a></p> <p>Episode 235, <a href= "https://www.thebrianbuffinishow.com/healthy-me-healthy-us-with-dr-les-parrott-235/"> <em>Healthy Me, Healthy Us with Dr. Les Parrott</em></a></p> <p> </p> <p><strong>INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE:</strong></p> <p>“You have to invest in the relationship. Don't be a consumer, be an investor.” <strong>–</strong> Kathryn Gordon</p> <p>“Where there's a void in communication, negativity will fill it.” <strong>–</strong> Jon Gordon</p> <p>“You have to walk it out to talk it out.” <strong>–</strong> Kathryn Gordon</p> <p>“If you keep score, the relationship doesn't win.” <strong>–</strong> Kathryn Gordon</p> <p>“Caring is extending yourself. It