Rebecca Zung - No more narcissists

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In today's episode, our guest is Rebecca Zung, author, a narcissism negotiation expert, a popular YouTuber with more than 100,000 subscribers in 10 months, and one of the best divorce attorneys in the United States. She is known for dealing with the realm of helping people deal with divorces with narcissists.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[5:51]</span> <strong>Why should we listen to you?</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The first thing I would say is to tell me about you because I'm curious about people. I love listening to people. But if you want to know anything about negotiating at a highly professional level, especially with complex and toxic people, I certainly know how to do it.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[8:09]</span> <strong>What is Narcissist?</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A narcissist is a person who has no inner sense of value. So they have to derive all of their value from the external through either adulation or entitlement. They degrade people, control people, and cannot have any sense of genuine care or empathy for others because they're wrapped up and surviving.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[9:36] They are undoubtedly aware that they don't feel good about themselves. I think that they're aware that they feel like the world is not a good place.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[11:12]</span> <strong>Determining a Narcissist.</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Most people don't understand that they're dealing with a narcissist. Narcissists are master manipulators, especially covert narcissists. They seem like the most wonderful, kind, friendly people on the planet to the rest of the world. They only reserve their heinous selves for the people that they're targeting.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[12:26] People need to understand the difference between confidence, giving you the reasons why you should listen to me at all, and having no sens