Love, Lust and Laughter - 05.24.22

<p style="font-weight:400;">Good Sex Education Can Prevent Having Bad Sex – PLUS: May is National Masturbation Month </p> <p style="font-weight:400;">Who better to talk about masturbation than <a href='https://www.goodvibes.com/s/content/c/good-vibrations-sexologist-carol-queen'>Dr. Carol Queen, Staff Sexologist at Good Vibrations</a>, a company that created the <a href='https://www.goodvibes.com/s/content/c/masturbation-hall-of-fame'>Masturbation Hall of Fame</a>. As a member, Dr. Carol explained that the Hall of Fame was founded in response to <a href='https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joycelyn_Elders'>Dr. Joycelyn Elders</a> being fired in 1994 for suggesting that masturbation be taught in the schools.</p> <p style="font-weight:400;">Dr. Carol and Dr. Diana know many ways to prevent bad sex.  They discuss surefire ways to not get what you want sexually. What follows are their top ways to have bad sex:</p> <p style="font-weight:400;">Compare yourself to others: Sexuality may be the most subjective aspect of human experience. If you want to do something useful for your sex life, focus on yourself and the person you’ve having sex with – and don’t turn away. We need self-knowledge on a sexual level. How do we learn about ourselves, explore ourselves? How can we gain more sexual confidence?</p> <p style="font-weight:400;">Ignore your body:  None of us have perfect bodies. It’s not always easy, but working with the body you’ve got is one crucial part of improving your sex life. Knowing your body and its responses leads to more pleasure! Tons of surveys show that guys are not complaining about their partner’s rear end. If he wants to sleep with you, he finds you attractive. Don’t talk him out of it! If there’s any way to free your energy from body anxiety – and put it into having fun with him –  you’ll enjoy many more good times ahead. Some people struggle to get fully into their bodies and remain stuck in their heads. Some have trouble relaxing enough to enjoy any kind of sex. Learning to massage and be massaged (<a hre