Love, Laughs, & Old-School Relationship Advice (Single AF Series) - with Comedian Ms. Maebelle

Love, Laughs, & Old School Relationship Advice (Single AF Series) - with Comedian Ms. Maebelle <p> </p> <p>Away with this millennial dating advice! We’re taking it old school today and bringing our favorite comedian, Ms. Maebelle, to the podcast to give us some old-school dating and relationship advice. Now, if you've never heard of Ms. Maebelle, think of a kinder, gentler version of cultural icon Madea. Sometimes you need that “seasoned wisdom” to help you navigate through the stormy relationship waters. Ms. Maebelle delivers just the sauce we needed. I wanted to get her wisdom on what women (especially) should be doing while they’re awaiting Mr. Right (or Boaz, as he’s known in Christian circles). I also asked her about her thoughts on the over-sexualization of women and her best dating tips. Here are some highlights we discussed in this episode.</p> <p> </p> Finding Your Purpose as a Single Woman <p>Similar to what our guest Vernicia Eure shared on episode 32- <a href='https://realrelationshiptalk.com/32-the-art-of-becoming-happily-single-single-af-series-with-vernicia-eure/'>The Art of Becoming Happily Single</a>, Ms. Maebelle advised women who are waiting to be married (or at least waiting to find the right man) should busy themselves with a purpose. Don’t just stand around, aimlessly doing nothing. Be busy. She took us to the book of Ruth in the Bible and explained how Ruth busied herself enough to catch the attention of Boaz. John Sims, from episode 31- <a href='https://realrelationshiptalk.com/31-5-qualities-single-men-look-for-in-single-women-single-af-series-with-john-sims/'>5 Qualities Single Men Look for in a Single Woman</a> brought this point home as well. Ladies, listen up. Being focused on your goals, passions, and pursuits is highly attractive to a secure and responsible man.</p> <p> </p> Is Modest Hottest? <p>There was a phrase back in the day (speaking of old-school relationship advice) that suggested “modest is hottest.” Basically, modesty is the highest form of hotness. While the word “m