Living Your Life in Fear

<p>What does it look like when you are living your life in fear? When you have a constant state of anxiety and fear how does one man cope? In fact, how does anyone cope? That is a huge and very important question to ask</p> <p>I <a href= "https://www.relaxedmale.com/12-books-men-need-to-read-this-year/">come across so many men</a> who are living in one form of fear or another. The Gentleman who is talking in this post shows all the detail of why living in fear causes you so many different forms of suffering and anguish.</p> <blockquote> <p>Anyone else in here dealing with a soon to be ex that still wants total control of your life ? She weaponizes the kids against me (2/7months) they don’t live here so I have to FaceTime them on her time only and if I miss the time allotted, she’ll get all crazy . This woman evens goes as far as blocking me on all ways to contact them when we aren’t on good terms ( when I don’t let her have her way ) what is the best way to go about this because I just want to move on and have my life without her trying to control me.</p> <cite>Facebook Group User</cite></blockquote> <p>Some of the points that need to be made</p> <p>How do you move on?</p> <ul> <li><a href= "https://www.relaxedmale.com/want-to-be-a-man-stop-being-a-victim/"> Stop playing</a> by her rules</li> <li>Start working on yourself</li> <li>Build up your 4 pillars</li> <li>Get your priorities straight</li> <li>Set Boundaries and stick to them</li> </ul> <p>Weaponizing the Kids</p> <p>Yeah, she is because she sees that she has an influence on your life. That is all people want when they are like that. Bullys want to know they have some <a href= "https://www.relaxedmale.com/types-of-controlling-people/">type of power over other people</a>. Vengeful ex-wives are the same way. Their<a href= "https://www.relaxedmale.com/3-points-you-may-not-know-about-country-life/"> life is not making waves</a> and they know they can create anxiety in their ex. So they do it over and over. Cause you are willing to let it happen.</p> <p>But the