Lisa Chatham — Sex Crimes. Consent. And Hard Conversations.

<p>In America, it is more common to talk about disgusting things around children than to teach them about sex.</p> <p>Raising children without sexual education may result in teen pregnancy, sexual diseases, or sexually frustrated adults who may or may not be a danger to society.</p> <p>To dive into this topic, Lisa Chatham joined us in this episode. She is a psychotherapist passionate about helping men convicted of sex crimes return to being functional men within society.</p> <p>Today we will talk about sex crimes, consent, taboo, and how to improve your sex life as a couple through conversations.</p> <p>Do you think that a person convicted of sexual crimes can change? Let's hear what she has to tell us.</p> <p><strong>ABOUT LISA CHATHAM</strong></p> <p>Lisa Chatham, M.A., is a faculty member in the Psychology and Yoga Studies Department at Naropa University, and a psychotherapist in private practice in Boulder, Colorado. For over ten years she has worked with young adults, adults, couples, and groups on a wide range of issues including anxiety and depression, sexuality and identity, failure to launch, intimacy and autonomy in relationships, and psycho-spiritual well being. She specializes in family systems, attachment and forensic psychology.</p> <p><strong>CONNECT WITH LISA</strong></p> <ul> <li>Website: <a href="//www.lisachathampsychotherapy.com/" target="_blank">www.lisachathampsychotherapy.com/</a></li> </ul> <p><strong>WHAT YOU WILL HEAR</strong></p> <p>[2:05] Who's Lisa?</p> <p>[5:00] What's a sex crime?</p> <p>[10:00] Why is sex still viewed as taboo in America?</p> <p>[19:22] The influence of porn in America.</p> <p>[22:12] Relationship attachments.</p> <p>[29:37] Why are people addicted to porn?</p> <p>[31:54] How to tell your partner that you are addicted to porn?</p> <p>[34:39] Secretly consuming porn leads to eating criminal sexual activity?</p> <p>[40:05] Hard conversations about sex in relationships.</p> <p>[50:00] What is consent, and why is it so important?</p> <p>[55:56] Lisa's piece of advice