Liars, Cheaters & Snakes! (feat. Diane Burkholder)

<p>"Love is a combination of care, commitment, knowledge, responsibility, respect and trust."&nbsp;— bell hooks</p> <p>Hands on our knees, back on our THOT SH*T! The Thotful Moment is where we have THOughT provoking conversations about topics that have impacted our life.</p> <p>This week, J &amp; Lesly are joined today with an old friend who has taught us so much about social justice and just an all around amazing person, <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/dianeburkholder" target="_blank">DIANE BURKHOLDER</a>! Diane has done work around sexual health, anti-racism work, movement for black lives and the list goes on and on. This episode is inspired by all the cheating drama going on with Adam Levine and the Try-Guys. We do not care about these white boys but we definitely wanted to talk about CHEATING and what comes along with it. We cover why do people cheat, is it wrong to look thru your partner's phone and can you ever really trust someone?</p> <h1>Diane also suggested some good places: Buy some cute gay plants (<a href="https://www.instagram.com/plantiitas/" target="_blank">Plantiitas</a>); Queer, Indigenous, Chicana tiendita/store (<a href="https://www.instagram.com/adelitas_revenge/?hl=en" target="_blank">Adelitas Revenge</a>); BOOKS (<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Will-Change-Men-Masculinity-Love/dp/0743456084#:~:text=In%20The%20Will%20to%20Change,%2C%20ethnicity%2C%20or%20sexual%20orientation." target="_blank">The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love</a> by bell hooks, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Seduction-Foreplay-Mind-Blowing-ebook/dp/B081QTM8SP" target="_blank">The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay: Techniques and Strategies for Mind-Blowing Sex</a> by Marla Renee Stewart); Podcasts (<a href="https://www.estherperel.com/podcast" target="_blank">Esther Perel</a>, <a href="https://www.sexwithdrjess.com/podcast-2/#.Y0Xjl-xlBpQ" target="_blank">Sex with Dr. Jess</a>); Workshops (<a href="https://lunamatatas.com/en-us" target="_blank">Luna Matatas</a>, <a href="https://afros