Jillian Rosoff on grief: heartache, healing and humour (#45)

<p>1:31 - Radical Candor in the Rosoff household.</p><p>2:08 - what drew Jillian to grief counselling.</p><p>4:30 - people are scared to talk about death.</p><p>7:06 - what to say when someone is grieving.</p><p>9:47 - we will all say the wrong thing at some point.</p><p>10:50 - people get less support during grief than we think.</p><p>12:25 - avoiding resentment when people don't reach out.</p><p>14:39 - when the platitudes don't fit.</p><p>16:40 - don't give advice.</p><p>17:59 - we grieve in context.</p><p>19:50 - different styles of grieving.</p><p>20:45 - grief has more emotions than sadness.</p><p>21:54 - can grief lead people to detrimental paths?</p><p>24:41 - healthy ways to deal with grief.</p><p>26:27 - scared to be in the present because that's where the emotions are.</p><p>28:09 - how to stay calm and take care of yourself to help others?</p><p>32:55 - not feeling the "right" emotions when grieving.</p><p>35:06 - what value does a grief counsellor add?</p><p>37:48 - kids communicate through play.</p><p>41:51 - people can have very different rituals when grieving someone.</p><p>44:28 - the impact of not being able to attend funerals during COVID.</p><p>48:48 - we only know how to live if we've been confronted with death.</p><p>51:02 - the power of humour.</p><p>55:40 - feeling like we have to be strong for others.</p><p>1:0:24 - enjoying the present vs reminiscing about the past.</p><p>1:01:55 - what is most important when people look back on their life?</p><p>1:03:23 - sharing our stories can be a way to connect with each other.</p><p>1:06:00 - connect with Jillian.</p><p>You can find more detailed show notes with links to references at: <a href="https://candourpodcast.com/jillian-rosoff/" target="_blank">https://candourpodcast.com/jillian-rosoff/</a></p>