It’s OK To Decline the Baby Shower Invite If It Hurts Too Much

During the three years of planning and waiting to become parents, we received many baby shower invitations. We were at the age when many of our friends were marrying and having kids. Each time I received a glossy, pastel invitation, a lump would rise in my throat. I’m generally not a jealous person, but I couldn’t help but feel sad that others were becoming parents — sometimes twice — before us.