If someone has a problem with you, what is the best way to address it?

<p>When I asked this question, I didn’t think about all the different situation where it could apply; online, family, friends, coworkers, boss, peer, employees, colleagues – the list goes on.</p> <p> </p> <p>And each relationship makes the answer to this question a little bit different. How much do you care about the person who has the problem? Some random keyboard vigilante? Who cares. Someone you love dearly, that’s a different question.</p> <p> </p> <p>Brooke Miles started us off by sharing her experience dealing with comments on her YouTube channel. If she can find a shred of usefulness she likes to thank them and then maybe ask for more evidence based information.</p> <p> </p> <p>Domenico Ciarallo stepped in next to say he likes to take things out of the world of abstract text, like emails, text messages or social media comments and have a real conversation face-to-face and person to person.</p> <p> </p> <p>Fallon Siniscarco agreed, particularly for her generation. She said it is too easy to be passive aggressive if everything is done via text.</p> <p> </p> <p>For me the first question is always, “Is this my stuff?” Sometimes it is and I need to own that. But often, particularly online, it’s not. I recently responded to a comment on one of my videos by saying, “I can tell that you believe I’m wrong and I’m okay with that.”</p> <p> </p> <p>Sometimes someone can have a problem with you and it is their problem to deal with.</p> <p> </p> <p>What do you do when people have a problem with you? How do you decide if you should cut ties or work it out?</p> <p> </p> <p>Connect with the panelists: Brooke Miles: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/brookethemarketingpro/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/brookethemarketingpro/</a></p> <p>Is the President of Delaware Shout Out where they teach you to outshine your competitors on social media</p> <p> </p> <p>Fallon Siniscarco: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/fallon-siniscarco-889558267/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/fallon-siniscarco-889558267/</a></p> <p>Student Utica uni