How to Meet More People Online That You're Actually Interested In with Erin

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Lots of people have a hate-hate relationship with online dating and believe it’s responsible for their love life woes. But online dating isn’t inherently good or bad. It’s just a neutral space, like a bar or the workplace.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I find that people likely manifest their online dating experience based on their larger relationship pattern which brings me to my caller today, Erin. She’s frustrated because she’s unable to replicate the online dating success her friends enjoy and wants to know what she’s doing wrong. As you listen, though, you’ll discover why online dating practices aren't her main issue.</span></p> <p><strong>10:04</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Erin describes the dating pattern she’s had in relationships</span></p> <p><strong>14:06</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- The first thing that pops into Erin’s head during a short exercise</span></p> <p><strong>16:52</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Why Erin lost her sense of security and how she’s tried to gain it back</span></p> <p><strong>21:35</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- How Erin’s upbringing led to a lack of trust in her ability to provide security for herself</span></p> <p><strong>23:15</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- A bit of a woo-woo spiritual exercise I take Erin through</span></p> <p><strong>27:31</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- The mistake some overly-dependent people can make in relationships</span></p> <p><strong>29:05</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- How Erin’s view of her parents contributes to the</span> <em><span style="font-weight: 400;">real</span></em> <span style= "font-weight: 400;">issue she’s having in her love life</span></p> <p><strong>32:18</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Another version of self to look at, besides the inner child</span></p> <p><strong>38:20</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Summarizing and expanding on key points from the coaching call</span></