How Do I Not Base My Self-Worth on a Relationship? with Dante

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What does outsourcing your worthiness look like? Many people outsource their worthiness when they think they’ll gain acceptance, love, and confidence in themselves only after they reach a certain weight... or make a certain amount of money... or live in a certain kind of house or neighborhood... or have a relationship, period.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Now, those things can make you feel good about yourself, but it becomes an issue when they’re your sole source for feeling worthy. My guest today Dante feels like her self-worth depends on being in a relationship. So in this episode, she wants to know how she can stop outsourcing her confidence and worthiness to things outside herself, particularly relationships.</span></p> <p><strong>2:46​</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Consequences of being in a relationship to which you’ve outsourced your worthiness</span></p> <p><strong>7:44</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Why Dante feels her self-worth depends on being in a relationship</span></p> <p><strong>11:46</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- How Dante felt like a bit of an outcast as a child</span></p> <p><strong>13:34</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- The main culprit behind Dante’s inner child wounding and outsourcing</span></p> <p><strong>19:13</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Why Dante has a hard time letting go of the energy of one particular person</span></p> <p><strong>28:07</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Trouble connecting with your inner child to do the work? Try this instead</span></p> <p><strong>30:05</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Why trying to date and heal core wounding at the same time is a waste of time</span></p> <p><strong>33:35</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- A cool thing to try when you connect with your inner child through journaling</span></p> <p><strong>34:42</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- How to connect with your ancestors for answers</span></p> <