Healing Your Disappointing Love Life with Dr. Thomas Jordan - Episode 294

<p>Episode 294 is about diving deep into the human experience.</p> <p>When we deal with our emotions, especially when it comes to love, it’s helpful to identify our patterns. This could resolve a lot of issues when it comes to intimacy, traumas, and even grief. <em><strong>After all, the opposite of love is grief. You love somebody you can lose.</strong></em> That’s an unforgettable line we got from Dr. Thomas Jordan — whose clinical specialty is treating adults who are depressed and anxious about past or present unhealthy relationship experiences, people who are struggling with low self-esteem, feelings of loss, or an unhealthy love life.</p> <p>Today, Dr. Thomas will be with us to talk about the psychology around love, and how you can change your love life by changing your psychology.</p> <p>Overcome any emotional dive with us. We provide support for men from all walks of life. Follow us at <a href="https://ianlobas.com/podcast/"><u>m</u></a><u>enonpurpose.net</u></p> <p><br></p> <p>Quick Timestamps:</p> <p>00:01:09 Guest Intro &amp; Background: Dr. Thomas Jordan</p> <p>00:05:46 How Thomas Got Started</p> <p>00:07:39 What You Need to Work On to Have a Great Relationship</p> <p>00:09:08 What Love Is</p> <p>00:10:00 Examples of Sabotage</p> <p>00:14:25 Variation in Attraction</p> <p>00:15:35 Consciousness Is the Key</p> <p>00:16:48 Will Is a Decision That You Have to Act On&nbsp;</p> <p>00:18:42 The Differences in Women: Independence, Control, Intimacy</p> <p>00:21:19 How the Psychology of a Person Affects Their Experience</p> <p>00:22:51 Change Your Love Life by Changing Your Psychology&nbsp;</p> <p>00:23:39 Healthy and Unhealthy Attachment to Thoughts</p> <p>00:26:28 The Idea You Could Be in Love and Not Get Hurt</p> <p>00:31:21 Parentified Child</p> <p>00:32:02 Sharing Your Emotions With Your Child</p> <p>00:34:12 Starting the Journey of Self-Healing</p> <p>00:34:42 The Greatest Gift You Can Give Your Kids</p> <p>00:38:54 What Wakes People up From Old Patterns</p> <p>00:39:59 Dealing With Loneliness</p> <p>00: