Episode 129. Stope the Blame and Criticism Cycle

<div class="__fb-light-mode x1n2onr6" role="row"> <div class=""> <div class="x78zum5 xdt5ytf x1n2onr6" tabindex="0" role="gridcell" data-release-focus-from="CLICK" data-scope="messages_table"> <div class="x78zum5" role="none"> <div class="x78zum5 x1iyjqo2 xs83m0k xeuugli" role="none"> <div class= "x1h91t0o xkh2ocl x78zum5 xdt5ytf x13a6bvl xcrg951 x1r145dm" role= "none"> <div class="x78zum5 xh8yej3" role="none"> <div class="x1cy8zhl x78zum5 xdt5ytf x193iq5w x1n2onr6"> <div class="x78zum5 xh8yej3" role="none"> <div class= "x1tlxs6b x1g8br2z x1gn5b1j x230xth x14ctfv x1okitfd x6ikm8r x10wlt62 x1mzt3pk x1y1aw1k xn6708d xwib8y2 x1ye3gou x1n2onr6 x13faqbe x1vjfegm" role="none"> <div class="x9f619 x1n2onr6 x1ja2u2z __fb-light-mode" role="none"> <div class="x6prxxf x1fc57z9 x1yc453h x126k92a xzsf02u" dir="auto" role="none">We all criticize and blame our spouse at various points in our relationship.</div> <div class="x6prxxf x1fc57z9 x1yc453h x126k92a xzsf02u" dir="auto" role="none"> </div> <div class="x6prxxf x1fc57z9 x1yc453h x126k92a xzsf02u" dir="auto" role="none">Why?</div> <div class="x6prxxf x1fc57z9 x1yc453h x126k92a xzsf02u" dir="auto" role="none"> </div> <div class="x6prxxf x1fc57z9 x1yc453h x126k92a xzsf02u" dir="auto" role="none">Our ego?</div> <div class="x6prxxf x1fc57z9 x1yc453h x126k92a xzsf02u" dir="auto" role="none"> </div> <div class="x6prxxf x1fc57z9 x1yc453h x126k92a xzsf02u" dir="auto" role="none">Does it ever feel good to be blamed and criticized for an honest mistake or for being human?</div> <div class="x6prxxf x1fc57z9 x1yc453h x126k92a xzsf02u" dir="auto" role="none"> </div> <div class="x6prxxf x1fc57z9 x1yc453h x126k92a xzsf02u" dir="auto" role="none">Or for just being ourselves?</div> <div class="x6prxxf x1fc57z9 x1yc453h x126k92a xzsf02u" dir="auto" role="none"> </div> <div class="x6prxxf x1fc57z9 x1yc453h x126k92a xzsf02u" dir="auto" role="none"> </div> <div class="x6prxxf x1fc57z9 x1yc453h x126k92a xzsf02u" dir="auto" role="none">Listen to his episode to hear how to stop this vicious cycle a