EP289: {Special Series} What it's like to be an Enneagram Nine - Heart, Mind, and Soul with Taylor Murphy- The Peacemaker

The Enneagram 9 is the Adaptive Peacemaker. Got conflict? They don't want it and will go out of their way to avoid in, in their quest to maintain peace and harmony at any cost. Which sometimes causes them to go along with others' wishes in relationships or career situations even when it doesn't meet their needs.<br /><br />But this go-along-to-get-along attitude can lead them to feel resentment towards others and even themselves, and this quest for peace can leave them energetically bankrupt and looking like a horizontal sloth, belly up with Ho Hos at the ready, and binging Netflix for days. <br /><br />So how can Enneagram 9s learn to better deal with their internal and external conflicts to elevate themselves to the next best level in their lives?<br /><br />Today on the show, my friend Taylor Murphy joins me to walk us through her life as an Enneagram Type 9. She shares how working with me to learn about her Enneagram Tritype has helped her understand her past struggles and embrace her gifts for approaching life instead of wishing she could change them. <br /><br />Listen in as she walks us through recent scenarios that required her to use her 1 and 8 wings to walk away from relationships and business opportunities that weren't right for her. Plus, how she's using her podcast to help other women define success in their own lives. <br /><br />What You Will Learn <br /><br />Why Enneagram 9s are often mistyped<br />Why 9s become stubborn if you try to force them into a box or push them into doing something they don't want to<br />How an Enneagram 9s quest for peace can lead them into energetic bankruptcy<br />The reason Enneagram 9s can sometimes find themselves numbing out for days to Netflix<br />Why Enneagram 9s often trade long-term peace for temporary harmony <br />Why Enneagram 9s will sometimes follow someone else's plan for their lives instead of stepping into their own dreams<br /><br />Connect with Taylor Murphy<br /><br />Life. With a Side of Business:<br /><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podca