EP236: A Reason, Season, Or Lifetime Person - Knowing How to Really Let Go of Those No Longer Here for Your Journey

They say you teach what you need to learn the most. On today’s show, I’m living out that truth and sharing something very real in my life and something I think you need to hear. <br /><br />I’ve talked about the Season, Reason, Lifetime poem in the past but today I’m talking unfiltered about how it can be painful when someone leaves your life — even if you were the one who ended things. <br /><br />Relationships can turn on a dime and what you thought would last a lifetime is over in a season. Those situations can bring up feelings of rejection and leave us asking why this keeps happening to us. <br /><br />How you react will be unique to you depending on your Enneagram type. <br /><br />On this episode of The Leadership Formula, I’m sharing a very personal story of how one relationship that I thought was for a lifetime wasn’t and the fallout that ensued when it ended. <br /><br />Listen in to learn where each Enneagram type turns when they feel rejected and how navigating the end of a relationship can cause us to lean into the unhealthy part of our Enneagram type or our stress number. I walk you through how each type can use the healthy side of their stress number to move past the sting and into a healthier way of viewing the situation. <br /><br />Remember, you can use all the frameworks of your Enneagram type for something beautiful, you just must learn how. <br /><br />If you want to go deeper, I’d love to help you. My private one-on-one coaching is powerful and right now I have two spots open. If you want to apply to work with me, just click on the link below.<br /><br />What You Will Learn<br /><br />How to work with your Enneagram type to find the beauty in a season or reason relationship <br />How Enneagram 1s can turn from their black and white thinking to learn from the relationship <br />What 2s can do to be less explosive and more decisive<br />How Enneagram 3s can keep from shutting down and find wisdom in the bigger picture<br />How Enneagram 4s can move from co-dependent strategies into seeing the