Ep 68: Happy topics for hard days! (Do we want kids + more)

<p>How do you show yourself grace in decision making? How do you MAKE big decisions around where to live, career, family?</p> <p>Answering your Q’s and sharing some of my personal story on these topics.</p> <p>8 Q’s + Actions to Consider:</p> <ol> <li>Zoom out to 10 years and beyond. What do you want to be true at 70?</li> <li>Do the regret test. If you do or don’t do this, might you regret it?</li> <li>Give yourself grace if you don’t have an answer right now. Trust that means it’s not the right time FOR you to have an answer.</li> <li>Envision your day to day. What will this look like on a very practical level.</li> <li>What clues are in your fantasies? Is there a more practical way you could incorporate these?</li> <li>Think medium term. What if this was just for 3 years? What do you want to have saved financially in 18 months?</li> <li>What gives you buzz in your life? Can you find that in different ways in your options?</li> <li>Test it. Whether a trial run, or mentally through journaling, research and conversation. Put yourself in that reality to see how it truly feels.</li> </ol> <p>Listen to <a href= "https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-61-shelter-at-home-style-dressing-joyfully/id1461008135?i=1000474416355" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Ep 61: Shelter-At-Home Style + Dressing Joyfully</a> for more on #7 and what buzz is in our lives.</p> <p>Have more Q’s to submit? Visit <a href= "https://deanstreetsociety.com/podvip/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">HilaryRushford.com/podvip</a>. And come join the conversation <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrushford/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">@HilaryRushford</a>.</p> <p>PS - Books I’m loving lately <a href= "https://www.amazon.com/That-Month-Tuscany-Inglath-Cooper-ebook/dp/B00MSR5EJA/ref=mp_s_a_1_1_sspa?dchild=1&keywords=that+summer+in+tuscany&qid=1593603112&sprefix=that+summer+in+tus&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUExRVU4OUFBUlpKRElBJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwMDc5MzY1MThDVDA2Mk1SMU1RNiZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwOTQwNTA3Mk9GQzEzUVZXMUVKSiZ3aW