EP 414: How to Get Clarity on Whether a Relationship Is Right with Lucy

<p> </p> <p dir="ltr">This coaching call is about how patience and compassion without clarity can lead to resentment. Today’s caller, Lucy, doesn’t feel like a priority in her partner’s life. She asks for guidance on whether the relationship is right for her or if there are too many red flags. Christine shares some skills that can help Lucy get what she wants from her relationship.</p> <p><em><strong> </strong></em></p> <p dir="ltr">[For show notes go here: <a href= "http://christinehassler.com/episode414">Christinehassler.com/episode414</a>].</p> <p><em><strong> </strong></em></p> <p dir="ltr">Consciousness isn’t just about talking about our wounding or holding space for someone when they cry. It’s about taking action that’s in integrity and alignment with who we say we are.</p> <p><em><strong> </strong></em></p> <p dir="ltr">When we have a lot of emotional vulnerability or sexual intimacy and vulnerability with a man, we can mistake it for being in a conscious relationship. If you are in a dynamic where you’re having a lot of emotional intimacy, but you don’t have the consistency or the feeling of safety, it’s not as conscious as you may think. What do you need to do to make a relationship more conscious? Bring accountability, responsibility, and agreements into it.</p> <p><em><strong> </strong></em></p> <p dir="ltr">Consciousness is an aspect of sacred union, and in sacred union, there’s a masculine and feminine. There is the being and the doing. We can’t just swim around in the feminine being of vulnerability, processing, and emotional intimacy without the masculine of doing, showing up, and having structure. We need both, otherwise, our inner child doesn’t feel safe.</p> <p><em><strong> </strong></em></p> <p dir="ltr">My upcoming Signature Retreat is for women who are ready to let go of their limiting beliefs. For a nurturing self-care experience, join like-minded women from October 13‒15 in San Diego, CA. To apply for a partial scholarship go to <a href= "https://christinehassler.com/scholarship">ChristineH