EP 334: Should I Stay in My Relationship or Go? With Sarah

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This episode is about shared values and looking at the part we play in the relationship. Today’s caller, Sarah, feels she is at the end of her rope in her relationship and is not sure if she should stay in it or go. The discussion revolves around the different circumstances in her relationship and what we get to is that there is just not enough information yet. If you find yourself at a choice point in your life and are struggling with what to do, either you need more time, or you know the right path and you are resisting taking it.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[For show notes, go here:</span> <a href="http://christinehassler.com/episode334"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Christinehassler.com/episode334</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">]</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Many people ask if they should stay or go. Whether it is a relationship, job, or city it can be very difficult to make a decision. If the answer isn’t clear, it means one of two things, either the answer is clear but we don’t like it so we try to make it work. Or, we just don’t have enough clarity about it. In which case, it may not be the right time to make a yes-or-no decision.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">For a relationship to be successful, there needs to be a level of growth and connection, a level of satisfaction, and the freedom to be ourselves in what we create together. Those are just a fraction of the things that define success in relationships.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In a relationship, we must have shared values. At least three or four of our values must be mirrored by our partner. If you don’t have shared values, what is the compass? What is your North Star?</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What truly brings two people together if not their shared values?</span></p> <p> </p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Enrollment for the 2022</span></em> <a href= "https: