Dear Krachel: My husband has been lying to me for years. Am I crazy?

<p class="p1">Welcome to another episode of Dear Krachel, our monthly advice segment where we answer listener questions about life, career, relationships, existential angst, and anything that helps you become a more whole, fulfilled version of yourself.</p> <p class="p2"> </p> <p class="p1">This month we answered questions from:</p> <p class="p2"> </p> <ul class="ul1"> <li class="li1"><span class="s2">Your Biggest Man Fan, who has achieved some pretty spectacular things in life: Climbing out of poverty, losing 130 pounds, and being married for 20 years, to name a few! But now that his weight loss has stabilized and he’s no longer climbing the ladder at a corporate job, he’s finding it hard to enjoy his success—<strong>How do you feel good about yourself when you’re no longer measuring your progress with numbers and metrics?</strong></span></li> <li class="li1"><span class="s2">Heartbroken & Confused, whose trust in her husband has been shattered after learning he’s been lying to her for three years about something <em>very</em> significant. <strong>He doesn’t understand why she’s so upset … is she crazy for making a big deal out of it?</strong></span></li> </ul> <p class="p3"> </p> <p class="p4">We choose to answer just two questions this time, because we knew we’d have a LOT to say. <a href= "https://clarityonfire.com/husband-lying-for-years" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span class="s3">Come leave a comment</span></a> after you’ve listened to share how our advice for these listeners resonated with you.</p> <p class="p2"> </p> <p class="p1">Want to submit a question for our Septmeber episode of Dear Krachel? <a href= "http://clarityonfire.com/podcast-questions/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener"><span class="s3">Fill out this form and you might hear us tackle your Q!</span></a><span class= "Apple-converted-space"> </span></p> <p class="p2"> </p> <p class="p1">LISTEN TO THESE EPISODES NEXT</p> <p class="p2"> </p> <p class="p5"><span class="s4"><a href= "https://clarityonfire.com/trust-words-or-actions/" target="_