Adjust Your Mindset to Succeed in Negotiation with Melissa Fortunato, Ep #341

<p>How do you adjust your mindset before a negotiation? Why is it important to step outside your comfort zone? Why is a connection in a negotiation <em>everything</em>? Melissa Fortunato retired from the FBI after 23 years. She spent her career as a crisis hostage negotiator and did undercover work. Now, she offers negotiation and conflict resolution training. We talk about learning to adjust your mindset when you get uncomfortable in this episode of Negotiations Ninja. </p> <h2>Outline of This Episode</h2> <ul> <li>[1:48] Learn more about Melissa Fortunato</li> <li>[2:47] How to adjust your mindset for negotiation</li> <li>[6:32] How Melissa prepared for undercover work</li> <li>[10:17] Melissa’s experience working undercover</li> <li>[11:42] How to step out of your comfort zone</li> <li>[15:42] Focus on the power of connection</li> <li>[17:24] Learn to manage your emotions</li> </ul> <h2>Resources & People Mentioned</h2> <ul> <li><a href= "https://www.social-engineer.com/social-engineer-team/christopher-hadnagy/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Chris Hadnagy</a></li> <li><a href= "https://www.amazon.com/Influence-Psychology-Persuasion-Robert-Cialdini/dp/006124189X" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion</a></li> </ul> <h2>Connect with Melissa Fortunato</h2> <ul> <li>Connect on <a href= "https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissafortunato/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">LinkedIn</a></li> <li><a href="https://alchemy-team.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">Alchemy Team</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.negotiationscollective.com/" target= "_blank" rel="noopener">The Negotiations Collective</a></li> </ul> <h2>Connect With Mark</h2> <ul> <li>Follow Negotiations Ninja on Twitter: <a href= "https://twitter.com/NegotiationPod" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">@NegotiationPod</a></li> <li>Connect with Mark <a href= "https://www.linkedin.com/in/markraffan/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">on LinkedIn</a></li> <li>Follow Negotiations Ninja <a href= "https://www.linkedin.com/company/negotiations