67: Can you heal from a breakup while in a relationship?

<p dir="ltr">If you’ve been preoccupied with thoughts about your ex, or are comparing your relationship to your ex, or are even grieving the un-pursued romance of a crush outside your partnership, you’re normal– and this episode is for you. In this episode, I share what these thoughts are really about (hint: it’s not the ex), and share how to use the crush-mirror to bring ourselves back onto our own papers into wholeness. I also share a vulnerable story of how I have done this for myself.</p> <p dir="ltr"> </p> <p class="" data-pm-slice="1 3 []">Links: </p> <ul data-rte-list="default"> <li> <p class="">Join me for my monthly Q&A on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/AnxiousLoveCoach</p> </li> <li> <p class="">Both Feet In – my self-study course: https://www.anxiouslovecoach.com/both-feet-in-self-study-course</p> </li> <li> <p class="">Pick my brain by submitting a Wisio: https://www.wisio.com/anxiouslovecoach</p> </li> <li> <p class="">Be in my world 1:1 for 3 months in my Overhaul program: <a href= "https://www.anxiouslovecoach.com/1-on-1-coaching-with-natalie">https://www.anxiouslovecoach.com/1-on-1-coaching-with-natalie</a></p> </li> </ul> <p> </p> <p>Time Stamps:</p> <p class="">5:45 Seeking out chaos when we are with a stable, level-headed partner</p> <p class="">10:00  A story about a crush I’ve thought about for over 10 years</p> <p class="">19:50  Finding parts from your crush/ex that are missing in yourself</p> <p class="">23:00  The ego would love to see someone who is unavailable become available</p> <p class="">25:45  The dangers of putting the responsibility for your aliveness on another person</p> <p class="">29:25  How a spiritual practice can help with anxiety</p>