62: Divorce, Dating and Being “Too Much” feat. Chamberlain Iocovozzi

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This episode features my good friend Chamberlain Iocovozzi. In this episode, we discuss Chamberlain’s strength, life experiences, and dealing with divorce. She tells her story of courage, healing, and how we should normalize divorce, in the hopes that a lot of you can connect with that. If you have any thoughts about dating people who have been married, this episode dives deeper into the resistance to that. </span></p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Chamberlain’s Story [5:29]</span></li> </ul> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I put up with it. In my head, no one’s going to think I’m attractive, no one’s going to like my personality. I think I lost a lot of personalities when I was in that relationship, but I was so scared to leave it because I’ve been in it for so long.” </span></p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">The Moment She Discovered [23:30]</span></li> </ul> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“My first thought wasn’t my marriage, my first thought was that my Dad was going to be disappointed.”</span></p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Deciding to Get Married  [33:07]</span></li> </ul> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“If you are unsure at all of marrying a person, there’s no one forcing your hand to do that.”</span></p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Moving Out [38:41]</span></li> </ul> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I remember seeing all the boxes, and just the feeling of relief.”</span></p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">People’s Apologies [40:14]</span></li> </ul> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“When people hear my story, they say sorry. But first of all, they did nothing wrong. You really have to go through hard things to figure things out.” </span></p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1