55: Why Are “Bad Boys” So Good In Bed? with Dr. Morgan Anderson Part 2

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This episode is a continuation of the discussion with clinical psychologist and relationship coach Dr. Morgan Anderson, who dives deep with us into the various attachment styles to help us understand how we can work through the challenges each style faces, heal and become more secure in who we are to attract more secure relationships. </span></p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Avoidant Attachment and Its Difficulties  [5:23]</span></li> </ul> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“People with avoidant attachment struggle with reassurance. There is a lot of uncertainty. Everything in the relationship is confusing, but the sex is good.   ”</span></p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">The Shame in Needing Sex  [13:42]</span></li> </ul> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Women feel guilty about needing it, but hey maybe the way your relationship has functioned only allows you to feel connected and safe when you have sex. Sex is one of the many ways you can connect with your partner.”</span></p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Securely Attached Sex  [15:02]</span></li> </ul> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“What a lot of people need to realize is that when your energy is not going to the drama or the unpredictability, it can go into the deepening of building a life and having wonderful experiences with someone. Safe and secure is sexy.”</span></p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Having the Courage to Say Something [20:54]</span></li> </ul> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“In order to have the relationship that you want and make it sustainable of course, you have to tune in to yourself, speak up and voice what’s going on. We can be assertive and redirect.”</span></p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Fear of Starting the Life Over [2