5 Steps To Deal With Negative People

<p><strong>Get The Total Confidence Blueprint: </strong><a href="https://www.jamesallencoaching.com/tcb"><u><strong>https://www.jamesallencoaching.com/tcb</strong></u></a></p> <p><br></p> <p>Let's face it...</p> <p><br></p> <p>There are some Karens out there.</p> <p><br></p> <p>You know, those people that are just straight a** holes?</p> <p><br></p> <p>Yeah...</p> <p><br></p> <p>Unfortunately, we can't just "cut everyone away" that makes our life difficult.</p> <p><br></p> <p>If done in an unnecessary way, that can actually be toxic.</p> <p><br></p> <p>Question is...</p> <p><br></p> <p>"What if these monkey butts are my family, my co-workers, my boss, or my spouse, even!?"</p> <p><br></p> <p>"It's kind of hard to just kick those people out of my life!"</p> <p><br></p> <p>"Right?"</p> <p><br></p> <p>Right.</p> <p><br></p> <p><strong>Here are 5 Steps To Deal With Negative People:</strong></p> <p><br></p> <p><strong>1. Don’t take it personally<br> </strong></p> <p>Everyone is in their own little world and you have NO IDEA what they're thinking about.</p> <p><br></p> <p>You have no idea what they're going through.</p> <p><br></p> <p>You have no idea how much sleep they got.</p> <p><br></p> <p>God forbid...</p> <p><br></p> <p>If they're hangry.</p> <p><br></p> <p>Don't take it personally.</p> <p><br></p> <p>(read the 4 Agreements)</p> <p><br></p> <p><strong>2. Refuse to consume their poison<br> </strong></p> <p>Words, behavior, energy, etc.</p> <p><br></p> <p>You have a conscious choice to take in this person's poison when they act out (for whatever reason)</p> <p><br></p> <p>Or not.</p> <p><br></p> <p>It's your choice.</p> <p><br></p> <p>You'll know when you're taking in their poison when you're taking it personally.</p> <p><br></p> <p>You can just feel it.<br> </p> <p><strong>3. Practice compassion<br> </strong></p> <p>Again, you don’t know what they’re experiencing.</p> <p><br></p> <p>Maybe their kid is in the hospital and they don't know how they'll afford the bill.</p> <p><br></p> <p>Maybe they didn't sleep last