260. How To Be Awesome When You Feel Lost

<p dir="ltr">We all have times in our lives when we feel lost or in a hard transition time… we aren’t sure what our purpose is or we have a lack or goals or passions.  We can feel lost in one aspect of our lives or sort of lost in general.  Maybe it’s a feeling of overwhelm or underwhelm or both!  Today, we’re talking about what to do when you feel lost… in one aspect of life or the total picture.</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">We’re breaking it down and not making it harder than it actually is to get through it.</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Here are the steps that have served me best:</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Figure out what you want</p> <p dir="ltr">Figure out how to get it</p> <p dir="ltr">Get the right mindset</p> <p dir="ltr">Get the right skillset</p> <p dir="ltr">Get the right habits in place</p> <p dir="ltr">Be willing to make adjustments</p> <p dir="ltr">And just keep going.</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Let’s talk about the ways people can feel lost in different stages of life…</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Career</p> <p dir="ltr">Major life transitions</p> <p dir="ltr">Money stress</p> <p dir="ltr">Unclear goals</p> <p dir="ltr">Breakup</p> <p><strong><br /> <br /> <br /></strong></p> <p dir="ltr">1.  Figure out what you want</p> <p dir="ltr">Hard part</p> <p><strong><br /> <br /></strong></p> <p dir="ltr">2.  Figure out how to get it</p> <p dir="ltr">Easy part</p> <p dir="ltr">Find someone who’s already got it - and reverse engineer what they did</p> <p dir="ltr">Who knows the path?  Then do the work.</p> <p><strong><br /> <br /></strong></p> <p dir="ltr">3.  Figure out the daily habits it will take to get there</p> <p dir="ltr">Show me your habits and I’ll tell you what your life looks like in 6 months or one year.</p> <p><strong><br /> <br /></strong></p> <p dir="ltr">4.  Make adjustments</p> <p dir="ltr">Don’t be afraid to change - evyerhing will stay the same if you don’t</p> <p dir="ltr">And don’t be afraid to change as you go