247: The Path from an Insecure Attachment Style to a Healthy Relationship

<p>If you have an insecure attachment style (or your partner does - or both of you do) - can you have a healthy relationship? And how do you know if an issue that comes up is something that you'll actually be able to fix? Avoidant, anxious, island, wave - or secure - sure, it's helpful to be able to identify your attachment style - but what can you actually do about the unhealthy patterns that arise? Today we're going to talk about what it really looks like to move from insecure to secure attachment - and how to get out of an unhealthy dynamic into something more positive.</p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">As always, I’m looking forward to your thoughts on this episode and what revelations and questions it creates for you. Please join us in the</span> <a href= "https://www.facebook.com/groups/RelationshipAliveCommunity/"><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Relationship Alive Community on Facebook</span></a> <span style= "font-weight: 400;">to chat about it!</span></p> <p><strong>Sponsors:</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Want something new to entertain you?</span> <a href="https://acorn.tv/"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Acorn TV</span></a> <span style= "font-weight: 400;">is a commercial-free streaming service that’s rooted in British television. It’s home to sophisticated and artful storytelling with top-rated mysteries, dramas that pull you in, heart-felt comedies and so much more. So - Escape to Britain and beyond without leaving your seat.</span> <strong>Try Acorn TV free for 30 days</strong><span style="font-weight: 400;">, by going to</span> <a href="https://acorn.tv/"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">acorn.tv</span></a> <span style= "font-weight: 400;">and using the promo code “ALIVE” at checkout.</span></p> <p><strong>Resources:</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Check out my</span> <a href= "https://www.neilsattin.com/course"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Secrets of Relationship Communication COURSE</span></a> <span style="font-weight: 400;">for a masterclass in how t