244. How To Be Awesome At Not Getting Offended

<div class=""> <div class="">A lot of the podcast episode topics I choose are things that I am personally trying to become more awesome at. </div> <div class=""> </div> <div class="">Things I haven’t mastered and it’s a work in progress and I want to learn more and do better and share what I’ve learned</div> <div class=""> </div> <div class="">Every now and then there’s a podcast topic, that I can humbly and confidently say I’ve got it. This is one of those. </div> <div class=""> </div> <div class="">How to be awesome at not being easily offended. </div> <div class=""> </div> <div class="">It is so hard to actually offend me. It’s kind of crazy to think about. </div> <div class=""> </div> <div class="">Today we are diving into what it actually takes to not be offended by things that people say to you or situations that are outside your control. Often times we are assuming or projecting or making something small into something big.</div> <div class=""> </div> <div class="">By not being easily offended, you free up so much mental bandwidth and you save yourself so much stress and agony. </div> <div class=""> </div> <div class="">A big part of this is believing people when they show you who they are.  And then adjust your relationship if you need to.  If you are close to someone who is constantly offending you… do you need to do some inner work so you aren’t taking things offensively OR do you need to put a little distance between you and them? </div> <div class=""> </div> <div class="">I think not being offended is a superpower because you have the confidence to know that when things go sideways, you can brush it off and move on because that leaves you feeling awesome instead of shitty! no brainer right? </div> <div class=""> </div> <div class="">-Question for you - if you see a party that you weren’t invited to- but some of your friends were- are you offended? </div> <div class="">Or do you look at all sides of it? </div> <div class=""> </div> </div> <div class=""> <div class="">-Also- put space between you and pe