232. When They Keep Bringing up the Past and Won’t Let it Go

<p>We’ve all been there. You’ve been working on yourself and acting in a more healthy way with your partner, parent, or friend. But then you slip up, even a little, and suddenly they’re reminding you of that thing you did five years ago that hurt them. WTF?! Are they always going to throw your past behavior in your face no matter how many changes you’ve made? Are you feeling frustrated because you’re trying so hard in the present to be healthy, but they just won’t let the past go? I’m here to help! Today you’re going to learn why people have a hard time letting go and my top five tips to stop living in past hurts and start building healthy relationships now.<br /> ____________________________<br /> Full blog and show notes: <a href= "https://abbymedcalf.com/when-they-keep-bringing-up-the-past-and-wont-let-it-go" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">https://abbymedcalf.com/when-they-keep-bringing-up-the-past-and-wont-let-it-go</a><br /> <br /> Grab my FREE Mindfulness Starter Kit: <a href= "https://abbymedcalf.com/product/mindfulness-starter-kit/" target= "_blank" rel= "noopener">https://abbymedcalf.com/product/mindfulness-starter-kit/</a><br /> <br /> Want to feel happier and more connected in your relationship? Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing: <a href="https://abbymedcalf.com/book" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">https://abbymedcalf.com/book</a><br /> ____________________________</p> <p>Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to  <a href= "https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast</a> and <a href= "https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives</a> where you’ll find every single episode.<br /> <br /> Subscribe today to get my love letter to you! This biweekly reminder will keep you on the path to creating connected, happy relationships (especially the one with yourself!). <a href= "https: