231// Pt 2 Be the Calm Your Kids Need, Talking Less and Reducing Anger // Michaeleen Doucleff Hunter Gather Parent

<p>Some parenting wisdom feels true to our core; that is how we felt when we read much of the wisdom from Hunter Gather Parent by Michaleen Doucleff. Today we are sharing our favorite nuggets from the book pertaining to disciplining our kids. The advice is less prescriptive and more in line with what we know to be true as parents and humans. Our children are learning. Our role is to see them with love and respect and teach them the ways of their family tribe. We tackle how to direct our kids with less force, create cooperation, and reduce the amount of anger in our homes. </p> <p>Find part one of our conversation here - </p> <p><a href="https://www.findthemagic.co/homepage/230-pt-1-what-ancient-cultures-can-teach-us-about-the-lost-art-of-raising-happy-helpful-little-humans-michaeleen-doucleff">230 // Pt 1: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans // Michaeleen Doucleff</a></p> <p>Books, Quotes, &amp; Links Mentioned</p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/understanding-praise-and-how-we-can-use-it-to-give/id1448424341?i=1000559452373">Understanding Praise and How We Can Use It to Give Our Kids Confidence Instead of Insecurity</a></p> <p><a href="https://amzn.to/3mNQCUz">Hunt, Gather, Parent: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans // Michaeleen Doucleff </a></p> <p>“When little people are overwhelmed by big emotions, it&#39;s our job to share our calm, not join their chaos.”― L.R. Knost</p> <p>Time Stamps</p> <p>7:15 - Premise of Hunter, Gather, Parent</p> <p>9:50 - 100 commands vs. 3 commands per hour</p> <p>12:00 - A request is giving our kids the chance to obey or rebel</p> <p>14:30 - Master the facial expressions and gestures</p> <p>15:11 - Ask 3 times calmly</p> <p>18:59 - Parent is the pole analogy</p> <p>22:11 - Don’t talk for your kids</p> <p>25:17 - At intersecting points, redirect your kids to the family</p> <p>27:58 - Misbehavior is a call for responsibility &amp; freedom</p> <p>29:0