149. The Surprising Things You Learn From a Family Personality Test

<p dir="ltr">Hey, Family Brand community! Today we're diving deep into a topic that's been on our mind for a while: the power of personality tests in strengthening family bonds.</p> <p dir="ltr">Now, I know what you're thinking. Personality tests? Really? But hear me out. Chris and I have been exploring various personality assessments, and the insights we've gained have been nothing short of transformative for our family dynamics.</p> <p dir="ltr">We've all seen those quizzes and tests floating around the internet, claiming to reveal our deepest traits and tendencies. While we're by no means experts in the field, we've found a couple that have truly resonated with us. But here's the catch: it's not about boxing ourselves into a specific category or letting a test define us. Instead, it's about understanding our strengths, acknowledging our shadows, and using that knowledge to foster deeper connections with our kids.</p> <p dir="ltr">The Enneagram has been a game-changer for our family. From our first introduction by a dear friend to hearing the creator, Ian Morgan Kroms, speak about it, we've been captivated. The Enneagram doesn't just label you with a number; it delves into your core motivations and offers insights into how you can thrive. Recognizing these traits has allowed us to appreciate our differences and leverage our strengths in our relationship.</p> <p dir="ltr">But it's not just about us. We've introduced our three oldest kids to the StrengthsFinder assessment, and the results have been eye-opening. It's given us a window into their unique strengths and how they view the world. For example, discovering that competition is a driving force for Chris, Tate, and Tanner has helped us approach family games with a new perspective. Instead of potential conflict, we see an opportunity for growth and understanding.</p> <p dir="ltr">The overarching lesson here? It's not about the tests themselves, but the self-awareness and understanding they bring. As parents, one of our greatest responsibilities is to help our