140. How To Be Awesome At Putting Things In Perspective

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In this episode, Lindsay is sharing a personal story that took her actual life perspective and shook it up a bit.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Your perspective on life determines how you relate to people, how you handle relationships and conflicts, and how you live day-to-day.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It’s the most important.  </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But then why are we often walking around with a perspective that doesn’t make sense. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Picture something that you’re upset about or you’re losing sleep over. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Now picture - the worst- you get a call that someone you love was hit by a bus.  That shit means nothing now. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Lindsay says, "if someone asks me how I’m doing these days, even if shit is going bonkers all around me, I say I’m doing awesome, because I didn’t get a call today that one of people closest to me is sick or hurt."</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">She explains that she’s not saying if it’s not cancer it’s not allowed to stress you out, she's just trying to share the perspective shake up that she experienced. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Lindsay tells the story of her visit to City Of Hope and how it changed her perspective on what is worth worrying about. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Lindsay talks often about The Subtle Art of Not Giving an F all the time- but this is a bit different.  </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is about having a clear perspective of what’s worth getting upset/sad/worked up/depressed over, and letting go of the rest of it. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Sometimes things matter, until something that really matters happen. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Care about nothing except for the health of the people you love the most. </span></p> <p><span style="f