118: Some People Will Think You Suck No Matter What You Do

<p>118: Some People Will Think You Suck No Matter What You Do</p><p>People would think that no matter what you do, you suck.</p><p><br>There will always be some jerk who thinks you’re just pretty with no talent.</p><p><br>And there’s nothing you can do to avoid it.</p><p><br><strong>Uninformed people making blanket statements</strong></p><p>Nobody has the right to an opinion unless they’ve done the exact same thing you want. Helpful advice is always welcome, but I’m talking about uninformed people making blanket statements, making you feel unsure, and anxious about your decisions. </p><p>02:30- 02:47 Helpful advice is always welcome, but I’m talking about uninformed people making blanket statements designed to give you a co-blanket, make you feel unsure, and anxious about your decisions.</p><p><br></p><p>02:48- 02:59 For example, You can’t make it in showbiz because you’re too short, You need a degree for that, You’re not qualified to do that, There’s no money in that, I tried that once, didn’t work. </p><p><br></p><p>03:00- 03:27 They always sound like they know they are talking about because they are so damn sure of themselves. And just because someone put it on the internet, doesn’t mean it’s true. It can be shocking how unsupportive and actually downright bitchy other people can be when your life starts to take off. You’ll start to get all sorts of well-meaning advice which means criticism in disguise.</p><p>03:28- 04:15 Leading an exceptional or unconventional life can be really threatening for some people. But remember, that’s it’s their stuff, it's not yours. As silly as it sounds, most of us are more worried about what random strangers say than our loved ones. After all, our partner or our mum is unlikely to outright say <em>“you suck and you have no talent”</em>, but people on the internet will and do that to us. People still love to give their criticism in the form of “wisdom” or “advice” and you cannot please everyone so don’t even try. However, negative press or a bad review should be celebra