#106: When They Break Up With You Because You ‘Deserve Better’

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Something I see a lot with the women that I serve is this stressful and conflicting scenario of hearing the phrase “you deserve someone better”. This is a phrase that is commonly used when someone, particularly a romantic partner, seeks to cut ties with us. </span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In today’s episode, I’m sharing helpful and encouraging advice about finding the message within that particular message. I share 3 messages that you should know when you hear phrases such as “you deserve someone better,” or “it’s not you, it’s me”. I discuss why accepting this phrase stems from a low sense of self-worth, and a one-sided negotiation that only happens within yourself.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It can be easy to personalize and internalize this message. And my hopes with today’s episode is that I provide a new perspective to this roller coaster of a scenario. This is a common situation many of us find ourselves in at one point or another. So listen to this episode as many times as you need, share it with a friend or family member, and take the messages that resonate with you.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">RESOURCES MENTIONED</span></p> <ul> <li><a href= "https://www.blackgirlsheal.org/membership/"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">The Healed and Loved Woman Membership</span></a></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Join our weekly text inspiration list by texting PODCAST to 832-219-7815</span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Get our free download -</span> <a href="https://www.blackgirlsheal.org/roadmap/"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">The 5 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction</span></a></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Apply to work together in the Recovery School  -</span> <a href= "https://www.blackgirlsheal.org/recoveryschool/"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Click here to pre-apply!</span></a></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Learn that YOU ARE WORTHY  -</span> <a href=