#102: 3 Mistakes Made as a Love Avoidant in Marriage

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This week, we’re finishing up our series on mistakes that I’ve made in my intimacy disorders and my relationship history. In this episode, I’m sharing the 3 mistakes that I’ve made as a love avoidant in my committed partnerships, including my marriage.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Love avoidance is the persistent act of putting up walls with loved ones, as if we were holding up an invisible shield. Some of us loudly declare our love avoidance by announcing that we have a hard time trusting people. Some of us might hide our voices well, but no one really gets to know the real us.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Although I’ve been more of a love addict in my past, where I overcompensated and made myself more emotionally available, what ended up happening was I fueled my love addictive behaviors. From learning how to access my feelings to involving my partner into my every day life, this episode will uncover my mistakes in an attempt to help others identify the core lack of skills of knowing how to be truly intimate with people and partners.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Get $50 off our</span> <a href= "https://shenatubbs.thrivecart.com/you-are-worthy/"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">You Are Worthy</span></a> <span style= "font-weight: 400;">course by entering the coupon code MAY2021</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">RESOURCES MENTIONED</span></p> <ul> <li><a href= "https://www.blackgirlsheal.org/membership/"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">The Healed and Loved Woman Membership</span></a></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Join our weekly text inspiration list by texting PODCAST to 832-219-7815</span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Get our free download -</span> <a href="https://www.blackgirlsheal.org/roadmap/"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">The 5 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction</span></a></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Apply to work together in the Reco