GITRMM ep 13: You’re Talking, But What is He Hearing?

<p>What You’ll Hear In This Episode:</p><ul><li>Women’s goal is to connect emotionally, but what do we typically do that ends up getting us the opposite results? </li><li>What makes a man feel like he is being interviewed?</li><li>How do we accidentally shame a man, and what are ways we can keep it playful and lighthearted instead? </li><li>What does a man really think when we go off topic, monologue, or lecture? </li><li>Instead of focusing on being “on”, focus on creating a safe space for him to unwind and really be himself. </li><li>Why you should embrace the moments of silence on a date, not panic and try to fill space. </li><li>Dating should not feel like you are seeing a therapist. </li><li>If a man is interrupted enough times, he just begins to shut down. Are you cutting him off without knowing?  </li></ul><p>Continue On Your Journey</p><p><a href="https://www.lisashield.com/">Lisa Shield</a> | <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1gGmxLqTPYjCtonnrBEHNg">YouTube</a> | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/">Instagram</a> | <a href="http://www.lisashield.com/apply">Book a Call With Lisa</a></p><p>Email the podcast at: DWDpod@lisashield.com</p><p>Mentioned:</p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dave-Barrys-Complete-Guide-Guys/dp/0449910261">Dave Barry  </a></p><p><a href="https://acim.org/">Course in Miracles</a></p><p>Quotes</p><ul><li>“When a woman goes too much off-topic, the man begins his own internal dialogue.” - Benjamin</li><li>“What the man is looking for is a way to relate to a woman in a way that he can’t relate to other men.” - Benjamin</li><li>“Women should ask, am I really creating a safe space for a man to open up to me?” - Lisa</li><li>“Two people that aren’t present, it’s almost like two holograms rather than two people becoming fulfilled.” - Lisa </li><li>“Both people feel they need to be “on” and it can lead to things that aren’t a real conversation.” - Lisa </li></ul>